K how can you tell if a guy is gay? it seems rude to ask!

And how can you tell if a chick is a lesbian?

Well a guy who seems normal ie into rugby etc could be gay or a guy whos talks feminine and dresses neat etc could be gay or he could be metro sextual and as for chicks its kind of hard as some chicks hook upi with other girls just for the hell of it

when he says stuff like ‘totally’ and ‘yeah! that would look HOT on you!”
with a girly tone.

you can’t really assume things because some guys and girls do stuff not becasue theyre gay/lesbian but just for the fun of it.. so i’d just be straight up and ask

I have asked one guy and he was so offended that I don’t really want to ask pthers the same question.

Its so scary not knowing because if a gay says something Its a completely different context to if a straight guy does

hmm.. well wen u ask u cud jst ask & if dey say why jst say ppl hav come up to u & askd u whther he was gay??

You could ask around who his past relationships have been with?
Or ask him questions like “So, are you seeing anyone?” or point out a hot girl and see how he reacts. Something like that, so your not just flat out asking him if hes gay, but you can make your assumptions based on what he says.

clever ideas!

so thats the guys sorted. WHAT ABOUT THE CHICKS?

well with the chicks its a lot harder to tell, many chicks like to hook up with their girl-friends for fun but when they only talk about girls being hot and not mention guys thats a clear sign, or when they seem to dislike men all together and diss them alot thats a gimme. its hard to tell a real lesbian from all the bisexuals.

He acts lyk a girl!