Hey everyone!
I’m 16 years old and I have never had a boyfriend/been kissed etc, I haven’t even held hands with a boy before!  I’m fine with this, it doesn’t particularly bother me because I know it will all happen in time.  My problem is that there is a guy who I have liked for about 4 months and today he asked me out.  Whenever something with a guy seems to be heading towards a relationship I suddenly don’t like the guy anymore.  So since he asked me out today I don’t like him anymore!  I have no idea whether to go out with him or not.  I don’t know if I actually don’t like him, or if I’m just scared of being in a relationship because I’ve never been in one before?
Please help!  I’m scared that if I say yes in a few days I’m gonna break it off or something?  I’m really confused and have no idea what to do?
Thank you!!

You’ve liked him for ages! Just do it xo

GO FOR IT!!!!!

go for it. i dont think its that you dont like him, i think you are just scared becuase you have never been in a relationship before.

I think youu should, if hes going to respect you and that fact you havent done anything with a boy before, then defanitly go for it.
Its not that you dont like them, its cause you havent been in a realationship before, and you dont know how your supposed to feel and think about getting close to boys.

you’re probably (no offence) a bit afraid of commitment.
i reckon you should give it a go.
what have you got to lose?
you liked him for 4 months!
see whether you still like him after one or two dates,
and then you can decide whether to continue the relationship or not.
GOOD LUCK ! :D

Go for it hun !
Good luck :D

I think you should definitely go for it!
If you find that you don’t really like him in the end, then tell him you want to be friends. If he is a true friend he’ll accept that!
I think you do like him, you’re just a bit worried because you’ve never ever done anything like it before.
Another thing, maybe introduce him to your parents so they also get to know him?
Hope that helps xxx

heya if u have feeling for this guy i say go for it as a teenager we go through mixed emotions and feeling.going out with someone is totaly different to a relationship u dont hit that for a while been bf an gf are just haveing fun nothing to be afraid of give it a chance go on a few dates just talk dont rush into anything that your not ready for as guy do mostly only have 1 thing on thea mind and we all know what that is just tell him u want to take it slow go toa movie or something ul be ok its not uu commen to freak out when uve never been out with anyone befor give it a week and see how u feel .then make a desicion ....

Just go with the flow.  I think you are basing your past experiences ¨oh he likes me, I have to stop liking him¨ on this one now.  If you keep telling yourself that, then everytime a guy asks you out, you reject them - then you will forever base your life relationships on this.

Start thinking, the next guy that asks me out, that I like, I am going to stick to it till it runs it´s course….

So get over it, and go with the flow.

I really really feel your pain! For me it’s because I’m scared about having a relationship… liking a guy/flirting etc is easy, and it’s generally risk free, but a relationship is just you and the guy, it’s more serious and it’s something that I’ve not had much practice in!!
Just go for it, you may find you’ll slip into it, start enjoying his company and such… good luck!

YOu should go for it ., if youve liked him for that long it will just be nerves because you are going to be doing things that you have never done before ., but just do what feels right in your heart to ., and dont let him preasure you to do anything that you dont wont to do (:
im sure he wouldnt do anything like that though ,.
but good luck . x

Jae.X - 22 April 2011 11:12 PM

YOu should go for it ., if youve liked him for that long it will just be nerves because you are going to be doing things that you have never done before ., but just do what feels right in your heart to ., and dont let him preasure you to do anything that you dont wont to do (:
im sure he wouldnt do anything like that though ,.
but good luck . x

agreed

Go out with him! You said you have liked him for ages…

i have had the same problem for ages now its like i get cold feet or something after liking them ! i found that if i just focus on the reasons i liked them in the first place that often reallly helps or if that doesn’t work maybe your just not supposed to go out with them just yet.. hope this helps:)

Just don’t do anything you don’t want to do