I just found out that one of my close friend is Bi and that she has strong feelings for me OMG.

Please HELP =D

Go out with a guy. Should get her off your back for the me being xo

WOW hectic that is freaky ... im sorry to say but u need to give her an ultimatem tell her that if she cant accept that u are not bi sexual and will never be then use cant be friend ... she need to get over it and acceept it and she will if she want to stay friends

I really think you should tell ur friend that ur straight and to respect your sexuality. If she keeps bothering u bout it talk 2 a skool councillor or someone u trust. Bo it before things start 2 get really serious.

One of my friends was bi and even though they arent that different, its hard to be around. like after p.e getting changed and sleepovers, it was very uncomfortable i confroted her about it, and she got a bit upset and angry, saying that she wished she hadnt told me, i think u might want to talk to someone, or get a boyf

Kooki - 16 March 2011 06:52 PM

I really think you should tell ur friend that ur straight and to respect your sexuality. If she keeps bothering u bout it talk 2 a skool councillor or someone u trust. Bo it before things start 2 get really serious.

agreed

ask her why she likes you so much. if she doesnt give a good enough reason, then you should talk to your other friends about this.
seriously, if Im in your situation I’d be kinda creeped out. I’d avoid her. :S

If she’s a really amazing friend, that you couldn’t bear to lose, or couldn’t live life without her, then you need to talk to her and sort it out. Don’t give up your friendship over her sexuality. Sit her down, talk to her nicely and give her an ultimatum, back off a little, or lose your friendship. She may just be confused. Listen to her and help her out. We all need some help sometimes, and even though she may not be showing or telling you she has problems, it never hurts to ask Don’t treat her any differently than you did before. I’m sure everything will work out the way it’s suppose to, just be confident , assertive, kind and supportive x

You really do need to have a serious talk with her. Explain to her how she’s hurting you and in danger of ruining your relationship. It’s everyone’s right to have their own feelings and sexuality - she probably doesn’t realise how she’s affecting you. Because she’s bisexual, she probably assumes that most other people are but won’t admit it. You need to make sure that she understands that you don’t have any feelings for her, and that you never will.

Set her straight and tell her the situation is ruining your friendship. Maybe tell her you like a guy so she’ll know for sure you are not interested.

i the exact same problem execpt a bit higher up the scale. she swears shes in love with me and wont leave me alone, and im no longer friends with her because of it :( tell her its either friends or nothing but dont be afraid to back down on what u say, if shes truly a friend she should understand xx

One of my *friends is bi she had a crush on me and we got really close… my parents got involved and i now have nothing to do with her and she lives with her girlfriend. We are no longer friends, and her girlfriend wants to ‘smash me’ awesome.

It’s people like this that make it an uncomfortable experience to have a lesbian or bi friend. There is absolutely nothing wrong with her being bi but the fact that she is making you feel uncomfortable to the point of you feeling harassed and upset isn’t okay. Just tell her straight to her fact “I don’t like you that way. You need to move on! Please, you are making me feel harassed and I don’t want to spoil our friendship” and hope that she gets the message :\

I have accepted my sexuality for about 3-4 months now. I have parents and some friends that are strong belivers that being strait is the only way to be.
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I dont think she is being your “friend” she just wants a relationship out of it