What do you do when you tell your bf goodnight i love you and you only get a night night back ? is this a big deal or no?

This is a big deal if and ONLY IF you have never said ‘I love you’ to each other before.  If thats the case maybe he felt a bit akward, texting isn’t the best way to first bring out the ‘love’ thing.  You need to talk to him face to face.
BUT if you always say ‘I love you’ to each other, then STOP stressing, he’s a guy, he doesn’t necessarily feel the need to say ‘I love you’ every time you do in return . . . .

it also depends how you say i love you..like if u say it in full or ily. but i agree with the last coment xx

shortiepie - 11 May 2011 06:32 PM

This is a big deal if and ONLY IF you have never said ‘I love you’ to each other before.  If thats the case maybe he felt a bit akward, texting isn’t the best way to first bring out the ‘love’ thing.  You need to talk to him face to face.
BUT if you always say ‘I love you’ to each other, then STOP stressing, he’s a guy, he doesn’t necessarily feel the need to say ‘I love you’ every time you do in return . . . .

agree with this!

ok thats what i was thinking but it just caught me off gard

Good luck

lol i txt my boyfriend “i miss you” the other day and got an “aww” back that sucked haha

my boyfriend does that now >.< he used to tell me he loved me. though I asked him why and he said he doesn’t want it to lose it’s meaning, so when he does say it I know he means it

he might not be ready to tell you he loves you or is still unsure wether he love you or just likes you heaps. love can be an extremely scary word. just tread lightly and take it slow. the L word tends to freak guys out

Guys can be complicated creatures. If you have never said “i love you” before and that was the first time, yes it could have been awkward for him or maybe he just isn’t at a stage where he feels comfortable to say it back. I know that it sucks when he doesn’t return the feelings but girls fall in love faster than guys so maybe you should give him time. If however he has told you he loves you before and this time he hasn’t, don’t automatically think that he doesn’t love you because if you see no change in your relationship then chances are that he was thinking about something else or maybe just assumed that you already know that he loves you so didn’t feel the need to say it in return. This happens to me but in reverse, my boyfriend always says he loves me before i go to sleep but i don’t always say it in return but he knows that i do.

Idk it’s not that big of a deal just pretend it really never happened,I waited for my boyfriend to say I love you first.don’t freak over itt guys hate that.andd make sure you wait in the relationship before you know yuhh love him.

its not much of a big deal, some teenagers get carried away with the whole “i love you” thing. Personally i dont say it, because i want to get more closer too him before id say it, maybe thats what he wants…. it also could mean he doesnt feel the same as you. My boyfriend said he loved me, i had to say it back… to be nice. It was horibble, because i didnt feel the same… anyways just dont think about it too much and let things go naturally(: hahahha