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To tell him or not to tell him?
Posted: 14 October 2011 05:51 PM   Ignore ]  
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Hey girls!
I have a question and I just wanted to know what you guys think?
Should you tell a guy that you like him or not? If you don’t tell him, he may never know how you feel.
What do you guys think? Would really appreciate some advice on this!
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Posted: 15 October 2011 09:58 AM   Ignore ]   [ # 1 ]  
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it depends if your really good friends then its probably best not to because it could possibly ruin your friendship
but if you have strong feelings for the guy then go for at least you know if he has the same feelings or not

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Posted: 16 October 2011 12:18 PM   Ignore ]   [ # 2 ]  
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I think tell him.  Guy/Girl friendships often seem to suffer over time with partners not wanting their GF or BF to have friends of the opposite sex so if you want to give it a go with him, let him know.  If he starts a relationship with another girl, you’ll hardly see him because she won’t want him to have girl ‘friends’ so you may end up losing him anyway.  Do a bit of soul searching and really ask yourself if this is something you want and what you’re willing to risk for it.  I hope all works out the way you want it to. smile  Whichever way you go.

 

Posted: 18 October 2011 12:21 PM   Ignore ]   [ # 3 ]  
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Tell him! smile You will never know what will happen unless you tell him. YOu wouldnt want to live for a long while thinking “what if”, but if he does not like you back (and be ready for that) then it will only make you stronger as a person on the inside, after a breakdown which is totally normal if you really like him. But do tell him, dont be afraid to take a risk if you think he may be worth it wink
My advice is… GO FOR IT!
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Posted: 18 October 2011 10:46 PM   Ignore ]   [ # 4 ]  
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Hey thanks so much for your advice!
I think I will tell him, I don’t like the idea of all the “what if’s” and “if only”‘s, I think it is better to take a risk and tell him, I think guys are more shy of expressing their feelings than we are, and we may be telling them what they want to say to us. smile
Thanks guys, if you’ve got any more advice I’d love to hear it!

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