I really need help, I’m confused.
So i went to a party in the weekend and got kinda wasted, anyway I ended up hooking up with my best guy mate who has a girlfiend, and I don’t really remember much of this but he told me what happened and now his girlfriend, who is also one of my close friends, has found out and she dumped him and she’s not talking to me.
My guy mate was really upset with being dumped and he came around to tell me what happened and we ended up hooking up again, I dont know if he likes me, before the weekend i didn’t have any feelings for him but now I’m really starting to like him!
Does he like me? and is he worth my time? or should i just forget about him and try to get our relationship back to normal?
Please give me some advice, I’m just so confused!!!

I cant even read your post , Change the colour of your Text

Now that he doesn’t have a GF he’s probably looking to you to fill the hole inside that he feels from being a #### but he doesn’t sound like a super choice.  He hooked up with you probably thinking his GF wouldn’t find out.  Would either of you have done this if sober?  You may have a chance to patch things up with your friend by being honest with her and saying you’re sorry but don’t expect her to forgive and forget too quickly, Frank Zappa’s opinion on broken hearts isn’t for everyone.  In my opinion he sounds like he’ll use you too til someone else comes along.  Chalk this one up as one of lifes super whoopsie’s, don’t be too hard on yourself but don’t make it a habit, and please girl, in future watch yourself, lots of babies end up coming out of nights like that, do you want one yet?

he cheated on his gf , who says hes not gona cheat on you sweetheart ?

who could do that i meanz..
lucky you found out coz if he did it to his gf then he will honestly do it to you
but its not a good idea to get wasted lol

Alice
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You should talk to him, I think people should stop blaming the guy for this as well. I mean, he didn’t do a good thing, but you were both drunk, and it is your fault too. So talk to him, ask him what he wants out of this and stuff. But I’m not sure a great relationship will come out of this, especially if your good friend went out with him, you might feel guilty and thats not good.

hes hurting , he di something he regrets and cant take back sadly thats why he came to you , he knew youdlisten v=because im guesin evrybodiiees angry at him . i honestly think that gettin n to a relationship with him would be stupid idea resulting in pain in both sides . do yourself a favour and do not hook up with him anymore and talk to him about it

alittlelamb - 29 November 2011 10:41 AM

he cheated on his gf , who says hes not gona cheat on you sweetheart ?

^ exactly. That was a really stink thing to do.
If youre asking questions like “is he worth my time or should i just forget about it” , if you even CAN just forget about it then… it doesnt sound like you really like him/want him in your life for a long time.

If you ended up having a relationship with this guy will you ever trust him knowing that he has cheated on your other friend with you? There will always be mistrust in your relationship, he did it to her what would stop him from doing it to you? I say end it, don’t go there. It’s not worth the pain and there is still hope at mending fences with all involved if you don’t take it any further.