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Posted: 08 February 2010 08:52 PM   Ignore ]  
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grrr Does anyone come from a family with older siblings - brothers\sisters? Do you always find yourself fighting with them? I was told this was normal to not get on with your siblings all the time. I reckon though if something was to happen to one of us we would be beside that person in a flash to give our support. smile

 

Posted: 09 February 2010 09:14 AM   Ignore ]   [ # 1 ]  
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yes, and I have found the longer the argument goes on the harder to repair

 

Posted: 11 February 2010 06:52 PM   Ignore ]   [ # 2 ]  
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I reckon with your brother it’s LOVE for his misses and he wont listen to you if you put her down so I would give up. Maybe he might see her how you see her and he might end it… but then I have heard of brothers and sisters not talking to each other for years and years

 

Posted: 02 March 2010 08:17 PM   Ignore ]   [ # 3 ]  
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i only have a younger sister, we used to fight all the time when we were younger, but i have found that as we have gotten older we are a lot closer and get on all the time now

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Posted: 07 March 2010 01:57 AM   Ignore ]   [ # 4 ]  
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I’m the middle child!! So I’ve got a older brother and a younger sister to fight with. And I admit we did fight a lot when we were younger. But as we got older my brother and I got really close and now we never fight. I’m still working on not fighting with my sister lol but its true, if something ever happened to one of us the others would be there asap, and even when we fought and were totally angry at each other we always know that.

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Posted: 31 March 2010 04:40 PM   Ignore ]   [ # 5 ]  
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Well i have 3 bros and im the only girl. We do fight but get ova it. I fight more with my younger bro than wit tha 2 olda ones but as you get older it does’nt happen as much. Deep down yous care about each other, if somethang happens no doubt ur bros nd siss would b ther 4 u as u would b ther 4 them.

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Posted: 06 April 2010 01:19 PM   Ignore ]   [ # 6 ]  
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I come from a tribe of 6 kids..4 boys and 2 girls.
Fights are always commonplace but as we got older some went there own ways, made mistakes and stuffed up.
I only keep in touch with 2 sisters and none of my brothers now..Sad but true.
As adults we tend to see things differently and some things cant be repaired so you need to move on and do what is right for you.
It is usual for siblings to fight but most come together during hard times eg: family deaths etc.
We learn more about ourselves as we get older and hopefully from the mistakes we each make.
Ours is not to judge.

 

Posted: 06 April 2010 05:38 PM   Ignore ]   [ # 7 ]  
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I love my family
I have 6 brothers [1 is disabled and cant do anything like eat, move, talk. he keeps us tight smile ] and i also have 2 sisters who i am really close too.
When i was younger DARN did my bros annoy me! we always faught, but now we have grown closer due to all our family dramas. We all live with my mum and we all joke around, Hardly fight but we get over them pretty fast because there is just no point in fighting. It only gets better when you grow up and mature. it will be algood smile

 

Posted: 04 May 2010 06:16 PM   Ignore ]   [ # 8 ]  
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I have 6 little brothers and sisters. Moved out of home when they were all pretty young though - me and my 16 year old sister get on like a house on fire now but we used to be so nasty to each other. Love them all to pieces smile

 

Posted: 06 May 2010 02:37 PM   Ignore ]   [ # 9 ]  
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Ha, the good old sibling rivalry.
Every single family in history is like that.

I have a younger brother, who I used to fight with all the time! We would kick, name-call and the occasional plate would hit the wall too.

After I moved out of home, I began to see less of my brother, and now when I do see him I’m the nicest person I can be. Sure, we still name-call, but I guess that’s just our way of showing our love.. As weird as it all seems (:

 

   
 
 

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