i’m finally with the guy i adore so much and he is so good to me. my parents accept him and family think he’s brilliant plus all his family and friends like me (thumbs up). but since i’ve been going out with him all my mates have changed.
one mate keeps losing her cool with him and gets real snappy and possissive over me if hes there as well.
another started blaming him for everything and complaining about him been strict over me (which he isnt).
another tried flirting with him and he told her to back off (not exactly as polite as that lol but he explained hes with me and no one else).
one won’t talk to me because i’m with him.
and another girl i havent heard from for a couple years suddenly txt me and makes up awhole lot of stuff about my boyfriend trying to get into her .......he wouldn’t do that….....doesn’t know her…..........and every time she said they met up it was funny because me and my boyfriend were always together.

i think my mates are jealous as i havent exactly had a boyfriend before and i think they all thought i would never have one and could use me when ever they want to. i try spend time with them but they dont seem interested and seem to just give me a bitchy attitude

what should i do
i dont know what ive done
can any1 help me

yeah I think they may be a bit jealous. make sure sure you divide your time between your bf and your friends, hence the common saying ‘friends before boyfriends’. you just need to talk to them, alone, to find out how they feel and how you can work it out. maybe even organise some girlie things, without your bf. hope this helps.

My bestfriend is th exact same .
She hates that i hanq out with my bf (josh) more than her . shes always complaininq and hatinq on him .
but we are bffl so its somethinq we compromise ourselves around .
me and her are qoinq to th movies (by ourselves) because im tryinq to spread my time too . maybe you should do the same ?
who knew a relationship would cause soooo much problems:DD
hope i helpd .

i was in the exact same situation. You just need to remember to not ignore your friends and share you time.

Tell your m8s to take a chill pill man!

say that your fine and choose to hang out wif HIM not always with THEM

It could be they are jealous or it could be they see something that you as his g/friend dont see.  People can act one way with the family and another with the friends and you get so used to it, it is the norm and until things change you dont know what was wrong.  Also you might have changed since you have been going out with him.

If it is jealousy is it because all the time you spent with them is now with him, you need to look at this and just see how much friend time you have given to this guy.  How many times do you reject the girls for the guy, do you change plans at the last moment to be with him instead.  Do you talk about him all the time without realising it.

If you treat them right friends can be for ever, men generally come and go.  So you might need to sit down and talk to your mates and just see why they are like this.  YTou should also make sure you have enough girl time, because when you need a shoulder to cry on and you will, you want your mates there, not telling you they are to busy or avoiding your call.