My boyfriend proposed to me last year and I said yes. I’m really happy. I love him so much and he makes me happy. We get along so well. But as we get nearer the wedding I’m starting to wonder how I know for sure. I thought I did, but I’ve started overthinking it mayb. I don’t want to do this without being really sure. Forever is a long time. We’ve only been together 3 years and I wonder if are still in the honeymoon phase. What if our feelings fade?

You will know if he is the right one maybe your in that scary phase where he has proposed to you and you said yes and now your not sure.
If unsure do a pro con list, but from what i can hear there will be more pros than cons.
Listen to what your head and heart are saying

never leave the one you love for the one you like coz the one you like will leave you for the one they love

Thanks! I’ve done the pros and cons list, and there is almost nothing on the cons list except a couple of things which might never happen anyway! Its cool to look at it like that. Our love is way too special to throw away, so I’m going to go with my first instinct!

I think after three years you are still in a very fresh relationship and should maybe.. stay engaged but hold of the weeding for a year or so and do the pros and cons then, you’ll know alot more about the person. Good Luck

You will just know… I have had my fair share of bad luck and am now under the undertsanding that love should NEVER be hard work and the minute it is GET OUTTA THERE!!!
xxxx

It all comes down to trust. Can you trust him to be around in 20 years? Can you trust yourself that you want to wake up to him each day and that you won’t cheat?
Im young and Im married. we have been together for 6 years, married for 2. I trust my husband that he will never cheat or harm me. I trust myself that Im responsible enough to know that until death do us part means 50 years plus been married.

You don’t have to rush getting married, if your not sure wait until you are.

Well thats uhp to you but you shud talk about it with him confront your problems
but if that doesnt work just trust your heart it will know what to do We still have faith in you!
Be Strong!

I would talk to him and tell him your fears as they are real and valid.  Yes 3 years is not long, but after that length of time you should know if you want to spend the rest of your life with him or not.

Another way is to spend time by yourself and see how you handle life by yourself, that means not talk to him in anyway and definatly not seeing him.

dont worry about it… alot of people have doubts before the wedding, but once theyre down the isle they know they’ve made the right choice.. buh it depends how you’re really feeling

Congrats on your engagement!!

You will know in your heart whether you have made the right decision or not, there will be little things that will happen that will tell you this.  (i recently got engaged and had the same thoughts, I realised when I went on holiday without how much I missed him and that I had made the right decision).

Hope everything goes well with your wedding