me and my ex were thinking about getting back together he asked me back out i told him i thought we were better off just friends even though i knew i wanted to get back with him now i try txt him and his cellphone says it currently not connected i dont know what to do help !!!!!!! :(:(

If he really wanted you back honey he wouldn’t change his number.
There are plenty of fish in the sea you will find mr right, everyone does

thanx so much for your opinion i realy didnt think of it lyk that

In my experience, getting in touch with exs never ended well - there was always a reason we broke up in the first place, although sometime you forget what it was when you’re feeling lonely and missing them and looking back at it through rosetinted glasses. And although some feelings may be left, there is always a bit of bitterness or hurt that never goes away, and thats no good at all in a relationship.

Don’t go there!!  There was a reason you broke up, and whether or not that has changed, u need to be sure that ur getting back in touch for the right reasons before you do.  As the last poster said, you’re probably looking through rose-tinted glasses, and it’s easy to remember the good stuff.  It’s not good for you to chase him and get yourself hurt.  Let him chase you for a bit, because if he really wants you, he’ll come back.  At the moment it doesn’t sounds like that because he changed his number.  So, just relax and let him come to you, and if he doesn’t then it wasn’t meant to be.

I have the same dilemma and I recently spoke to my dad and my guy friends about it. Often guys react differently to break ups than girls do and they can’t handle being “just friends” - to them it is either all or nothing. Seeing as there must have been a good reason you two broke up, as a previous poster said, don’t chase him only to find yourself hurt even more! Take a step back and try to analyse the situation; there are SO many more guys out there who would treat you like you deserve so is this one really worth all the trouble and heartache? If you find yourself saying yes, then go for it and explain it to him. Otherwise, stop chasing and try let go. x

DONT GO THERE….unless it was a mutual clean break up I have learnt from the past that ex bfs are a “no go zone” hope you can stay strong enough to keep away good luck!

you need to thin about the reason you too broke up in the first place.

If its something thats not going to change then getting back togther is not such a good idea.

Itll just end in tears all over again.

He probably feels a bit ashamed for thinking you felt the same and then you saying no

If you really wanna see him try going somewhere you know he hangs out often and see him in person.

Face to face is so much better that screen to screen

thank you guys all so much for ur opinion i think you guys are right if it was ment to be then yea it will happen im just gona stay clear for a while

Never go back.  there is abviously a reason you broke up and you ned to remember what it was and why you broke up.

Can you call his house or try get in contact via facebook, bebo or msn?
I think the best way to sort out whether you two should get back together is sort it out face to face, you’ll be able to share your true feelings without covering up how you feel online.

thanx for your input i seen him today randomly when i was in town ive realised i dont like him anymore it just doesnt feel the same

you’re exes name wasnt shadow or andrew was it?

if you honestly don’t feel the same about him any more, then you don’t really need to contact him now do you? but if you just want to be friends. then go for it and contact him and go back too becoming mates. good luck hun! x