This weekend coming up i have a costume party, i was gonna borrow an outfit from my friend Hannah.
So she brings the outfit to school and at the end of the day, when were getting changed for dance practise she says “do yu want the outfit now?”, i say “yes”. I cant remember if she gave it to me or not. But anyway, when i get home i look thru my bag and its not there. I dont mind, cuz i thought she had just forgoten to give it to me.
The next day she wasnt at school, so when i get home i txt her and say “hay culd yu bring the outfit tmrw?”, she replies saying “what?! I gave it to yu, whatd yu do w it?! Yu owe me $240.”, pratically txt bullying me. So i reply and just sy ive checkd everywher, are yu sure yu even gave it to me, il look tmrw at schoo etc.
Now im freaking out cuz idn wher it is, ive lookd everywher, the parties on saturday, idont have money and i scared to tell mum, hannah wil probs spread gosip about me (shes a ##### lyk tht) and i just want to cry! Its not all my fault? Im so angry, sad, scared, worried, nervous!

Help!

Well I think that make sure you search ABSOLUTELY EVERYWHERE, and I agree, she doesn’t sound like a very good friend if she’s practically text bullying you, real friends would be understanding and help you look for it, without pressuring you to owe her $240, and plus surely the costume wasn’t that expensive. Maybe talk to her mum and see what she can do. But anyway good luck I hope you find the costume by Saturday!

yea ill say check everywhere, if u cant find it try to come to an arrangement to sort it out, i think u should tell your mum and her mum so they can help u sort it out, and when its sorted, i think u should stop bein friends, she dont sound like a good friend.

hey!
this sounds like it a really *&%% situation to be going through right now!
i know that i HATE it whan i lose stuff (and that happens a LOT, believe me!) especially if its not mine. If i were you, i’d retrace all my steps, and if that doesn’t works, talk to your friend and her mum and your mum and try o work out a solution.
Hope it helps!

xx

Aww.. how’s it going?  Did you find it?

Rats situation to be in.  Sounds dodgy.. I agree, check with your so-called friends mum or someone, it would be horrible if you’re being tricked :(

Thank you guys SO much for your advice!
I went to school the next day and searched everywhere, eventually i found it and was able to wear it to the party. But i have made a vow that i WILL NOT borrow clothes from people. Its just to much pressure and very stressful.
You guys are awesome, thanks again
Xoxo

don’t worry you just have to cope with bitches like her. just try to explain to your mama and if she tries to embarrass you in school you just have to say’‘i may not be as rich as you but i behave mature and have a better personality than u’’ and say it like you mean it. if she is part of the heartless bitches after saying the statement i told you to say say they is always karma and walk out.