Hi, I’m a 16 year old girl in year 12 at school and I have never had a boyfriend or been kissed.  Is this normal?
Thanks

Yeh it is normal alot of people neva had one yet so it’s fine!!

yea. that’s totally normal. Im a year 13, and never had a bf or been kissed. My friends are in the same boat as me. 

yup, totaly!

i know that ya hear a lot about that persons going out with that person and so-and-so slept with so-and-so but its very normal for someone to not have had a boyfriend in high school, they’re just the ones not saying anything.

me and most of my friends are in the same boat, of the whole group only a few have had a boyfriend and only about one or two regularly have one.

yeah, its normal…......im tha same as you. Im 16 - year 12 and has neva had a bf or been kissed.

totally normal i was the same way when i was in year 12 then my mate introduced me to this guy. two years down the track and we are engaged

Hey,
Don’t rush into anything if you ever feel pressured to do something you’re uncomfortable with becuase it’s not worth it.
The time for your first kiss will come, and it will be spectacular!
The plus side is that you wont have a bad reputation!

Annie1234 - 01 July 2010 06:35 PM

Hi, I’m a 16 year old girl in year 12 at school and I have never had a boyfriend or been kissed.  Is this normal?
Thanks

theres nothing wrong with it, i havent had that problem but im 17 and ive been with my partner since i was 15, your best off staying single and just wait till you got time for a partner, otherwise your stuck in a runt basicslly.

theres nothing wrong with it, i havent had that problem but im 17 and ive been with my partner since i was 15, your best off staying single and just wait till you got time for a partner, otherwise your stuck in a runt basicslly.

im 17 nearly 18 and have never been kissed or had a boyfriend! :(

Hi,
My Sister was 19 before she had her first kiss/boyfriend and now shes married and trying for a baby. but shes glad that it happened this way because she doesn’t have any memories of horrible break-ups, or the ex was better at something and things like that plus if you wait till your older you will be more mature and able to handed a relationship better than younger people. Enjoy life with just your girl friends there’s plenty of time later for boys.

I think it’s fine.
But i’m 13 years old and have hooked up heaps. but i only did all this cos i felt comfortable to do it. you must have not felt the same way towards boys. but i think you should only do anything with a guy if you feel comfortable and there’s no pressure coming from the guy. only do it if it feels right!! good luck.

hey theres no problem with not having one. you may be too busy or the guys you know may be more mates material that bf material. Keep going out and having fun with your mates no doubt the right guy will be one you just bump into somewhere…good luck but dont worry youve got PLENTY of time

I agree, you are completely normal!  Don’t stress it.  When the time is right, you will meet a great guy!

idk it really depends because im year 11 and people and my year have given bjs and stuff, i have been kissed but as a dare and i wish i had saved it for someone i care about but I’ve only had a boyfriend in year 6 while even like year 9s have had more boyfriends than me. its kind of annoying but i guess we all kind of develop differently and like i am comfortable doing all that stuff but just haven’t found a person that wouldnt just be in it for themselves. Not trying to sound like a mum but teenage guys are all in it for them and they are selfish and just want to hook up and get into your pants to go and tell everyone so their friends see them as legends but then you look like a ####. thats the case for a lot of girls.

It’s perfectly normal. but honestly, going out with a few guys isn’t a bad thing, I’ve been going out with my bf for almost 2yrs and he’s my first. I’m almost 17 and I wish I’d gone out with a few guys before my bf ‘cause I just found myself too inexperienced at the start. and I disagree with makeuplovingbaby’s post, not all guys are trying to get in your pants to brag, there are decent guys out there. you just have to find them, or wait for them to find you