i dont have a boyfriend,i really want one because my friends have boyfriends and i feel left out.how do you get a boyfriend? please help…any tips? does anyone know how to get a boyfriend??? i need your help….thx

Join clubs, youth groups, sports, activities like that and just talk to guys, act like yourself, be friendly….

thanks but its another thingy actually talking to them like what do you say? do you know what i mean.

you shouldn’t get a boyfriend just ‘cause you feel left out, but pretty much if you can’t find a guy they’ll find you but yeah, the problem with joining clubs and sports activities ect is it’s going to be super awkward going if you two break up. and guys are easy to talk to, you just talk to them normally, it’s the same as talking to a girl. I’ve had my bf for almost 2 years now, and known him for almost 3 but he’s my first real bf, and he found me. I didn’t even know he existed until he started talking to me. (turned out he was a class mates brother *awkward much*) but yeah, if you’re interested in a guy just start talking to him, if it turns out he’s a tosser stop talking to him, and if he’s nice ask him out after a while. as for what to say, just start small talk, but not something ridiculous like, so how’s the weather ‘cause that never works XD worst one I’ve heard was this guy came up to me and was like “so what do you think about how the nz dollar is holding up?” lol

thanks and i don’t just want a bf because my friends have one and i feel left out,but if they didnt have a bf i would still want a bf

i dont think there is any real way to GET a boyfriend.. And you know the saying, “It will happen when it happens” and we all think Yeah Right.

But the saying is pretty damn true! I was the only one in my group at school that didnt have a bf and it use to concern me, i decided just to get on with my life, finish school and enjoy my freinds! Then it wasnt until i was 20 that i met my first love !!

thanks every one for their help but i still dont know what i am going to do…um….

i still dont no what to do….i really want a bf but i dont no how 2 get 1 and im not that great at talking to boys so any help?

is there a boy you have a crush on?
or are you just going to go for any guy?

be carefull most guys want one thing and only on thing.
why don’t you just start being friends not sexual? guy mates are great and then you will get comfortable with the other sex and talking to guys will be easy.

If you don’t have a boyfriend don’t feel lonered neither do I !! They can be fun but you need to find the right guy not just be desperate for a realtionship cos all you mates have one

Always smile…:)x

Hey,
The first thing to remeber about getting in2 dating is to just be yourself. If a guy doesnt like you for yourself then he’d not the one for you. The best relationships are with guys that you really get on well with. Go to activities where you can meet guys and girls and then get to know them in a group. Dont go out with a guy unless you know him because then it’s easier to connect with him. Also remember to look for a nice guy because no one wants to go out with a doush who’s going to just end up hurting them.

i dnt hav a bf. lyk iw ant 1 bt im 1 of those realli shy ppl and stuff so i dnt kno wat 2 du…...

yur nt alone

Well, personally.. I always had a bf when I was young and I look back now and wished I had lived my youth.  They aren’t all they are cracked up to be.

Sit back, relax and when the time is right, they’ll come!

I do agree though that you should always be yourself.

yea..there is a guy that i hav a crush on at the moment…i have been meaning 2 go and talk 2 him but i just dont no what to say….u see i have never talked 2 him b4 so it wud be my first time talking 2 dis dude….sud i just go up 2 him randomly and start talking…and if so wat do i talk about?....im quite shy when talking 2 people 4 the first time….so this wont be easy….but im willing 2 give it an attempt.