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Posted: 10 July 2010 10:04 PM   Ignore ]  
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Heyy girls. i am 14 and me and my boyfriend have bin dating for 7mnths now and we want to hook up. do any1 have any tips or advice??

 

Posted: 10 July 2010 10:32 PM   Ignore ]   [ # 1 ]  
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What kind of a hook up are u talking about? smile

 

Posted: 11 July 2010 10:00 AM   Ignore ]   [ # 2 ]  
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yea, what kind of hook up? like i know in some places in means going all the way

 

Posted: 11 July 2010 04:17 PM   Ignore ]   [ # 3 ]  
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Hook Up??? what are you a fish ??? lol

Good to see you have been with him for a while but hooking up?

14 is young to be doing the naughty nangley with him, so are you talking about kissing and stuff.

How old is he?

Remeber boys to kiss will tell so dont let him go to far. If he does and you tell him to stop, he may feel rejected and tell his mates.

Dont go there girlfriend.  The last thing you want is him to go blabbing his mouth off about your goods. 

They are YOUR goods so keep them yours.

I know plenty of people who had it in thier heads to hook up and 9 times out of ten it was bad.


You have plenty of time to hook up with him later on, just for now make sure he looks after you and talks nice to you and makes you happy. If not kick him to the kerb and keep your goods to your self.

Carefull. you may thing hooking up is fun but heaps can go really really wrong. hang in there girl and dont put out, the younger you “hook up” or put out the easier you will be, which makes you a “not a nice girl” in the long run. believe me i been there.
Dont get tainted with that name for the rest of your school days.

If you cant talk to your mum about this then dont do it.

14 is an age to talk about this stuff with your mates, not do it.

He is at an age where all he thinks of is “Hooking up” so let him hook him self up, and then hang out with him once he has finished hooking up, there you will both be happy.

 

Posted: 16 July 2010 06:21 PM   Ignore ]   [ # 4 ]  
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mesell - 11 July 2010 04:17 PM

You have plenty of time to hook up with him later on, just for now make sure he looks after you and talks nice to you and makes you happy. If not kick him to the kerb and keep your goods to your self.

Carefull. you may thing hooking up is fun but heaps can go really really wrong. hang in there girl and dont put out, the younger you “hook up” or put out the easier you will be, which makes you a “not a nice girl” in the long run. believe me i been there.
Dont get tainted with that name for the rest of your school days.

If you cant talk to your mum about this then dont do it!

 

I totally agree (wish i had of been wiser) leave that stuff for later love, sometimes the consequences just aren’t worth it.

 

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hahahahahahahaahahahahahaha oi whhat the hell? she can hook up with him! your not too young if you guys r like talking bout it and stuff and you been together for ages.. up to you smile

 

Posted: 19 August 2010 10:04 PM   Ignore ]   [ # 6 ]  
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Im still not sure what “hooking up” in this sense is. Im taking it as making out or kissing…in which case…its perfectly okay. After 7 months? Yeah, thats allgoods mate. Having sex though is a bit different but if you guys are talking about it then that changes it but still not enough if your like 14. Oh, and I would never talk to my mum about sex…!!!

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just kiss himm…......haha on the cheek

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