So there’s this guy i went out with a number of times before. regardless of what people told me about him being a player, i ignored it the first time. turns out he IS one, and hurt me quite badly. i still loved him after that though. he then wanted to get back with me 2months later, and ofcourse i accepted. but THAT turned out to be another lie. that happened again recently, and i’m still not over him. even though he literally said that he still liked his recent ex, and that he was “sorry” for lying. which really didn’t mean anything, as he’s done so SO many times before. i HATE that, but i can’t seem to help feeling like this.

What’s a way to get over this guy ? he’s the most charming boy i’ve met, it just sucks that he’s a player and a total jerk.

Hi there

Well every girl goes through this at some point in her life.(including myself)
No matter what know that your friends are always there for you.
I went through the same thing and after the guy cheated on me he wanted me back,my friends told me that once a cheater always a cheater and that he would do it again. I ignored them and went back to him, sure enough a few months down the track he did it again and hurt me. From this I learnt that no matter what your friends say you have to learn for yourself as it makes you stronger as a person.
My friends and family were there for me at the end and I truly learnt who cared for me.

so take it as a positive thing that he wasn’t the one for you and you’re better then him and don’t deserve to be cheated on.

I hope this helps and we all learn from your mistakes.

Take care x