So there’s this guy i went out with a number of times before. regardless of what people told me about him being a player, i ignored it the first time. turns out he IS one, and hurt me quite badly. i still loved him after that though. he then wanted to get back with me 2months later, and ofcourse i accepted. but THAT turned out to be another lie. that happened again recently, and i’m still not over him. even though he literally said that he still liked his recent ex, and that he was “sorry” for lying. which really didn’t mean anything, as he’s done so SO many times before. i HATE that, but i can’t seem to help feeling like this.

What’s a way to get over this guy ? he’s the most charming boy i’ve met, it just sucks that he’s a player and a total jerk.

Hi there

Well every girl goes through this at some point in her life.(including myself)
No matter what know that your friends are always there for you.
I went through the same thing and after the guy cheated on me he wanted me back,my friends told me that once a cheater always a cheater and that he would do it again. I ignored them and went back to him, sure enough a few months down the track he did it again and hurt me. From this I learnt that no matter what your friends say you have to learn for yourself as it makes you stronger as a person.
My friends and family were there for me at the end and I truly learnt who cared for me.

so take it as a positive thing that he wasn’t the one for you and you’re better then him and don’t deserve to be cheated on.

I hope this helps and we all learn from your mistakes.

Take care x

I have been here before and Im pretty sure sooo many other girls have too. Unfortunately its not going to go away soon, but you can help quicken the process. I found writing my feelings down in a journal really helped! i first wrote all my sad and angry feelings down for a while, but then I changed my thought process and started writing positive notes, things to pull me through and make me a stronger person. I would read over these positive notes almost every day and repeat them in my head. I would tell myself I am a strong beautiful and independent young women, I will take on whatever is thrown at me and I could take on the world!! hehe, sounds kinda silly but It really did work! made my days go smoother and easier and I was a lot happier!

Good luck!

I’ve SO been there before!
He also became my best friend so it was SUPER hard for me to get over him as I talked to him everyday.
What I did was stopped all communication, as much of a struggle as it was, I deleted his number and totally detoxed!
Turns out after 4months of no communication and numerous txts he sent me that I tried to ignore, he realised he was a total dick and found me and wanted to make up and be forgiven. I didn’t promise anything, I just said it would take a long time and he would have to earn my trust and respect before we can even be friends again.
After 5months we started going out and have been together just over 2years now

X

Nqaww :(
I know how you feel. It hasnt happened to me but one of my bestest besties went through that situatin exactly. She went out with this guy after we told her he was a player. And she just laughed it off and said ‘i can look after myself’ and stuff. she got dumped quite badly and was really depressed and angry and had changed after that. I think you need to hang out with more girls. Get some TLC and have fun. They will always be there for you. Also dont talk to him, facebook or anything like that just ignore him basically i know that may be hard but give it a go

xoxo

I hate to say it babe but write him off. The sooner you stop texting him or talking to him/seeing him the easier its gonna be.

When I got cheated on I just deleted his number, changed my number and ignored everything he said to me. It made him more persistent but after a few months he totally gave up.

After doing this, start something to take your mind off him. Go jogging with some girls, walk along the beach and listen to music, or join some group fitness classes. If your busy all the time, you wont have time to think of him =]

xxx