well i thhink that it shouldn be about age it should be if you think it feels right feels right

A number can’t stop the feelings you share with this guy.

I agree with that, you can’t help who you fall in love with. But remember, guard your heart.

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slygirl02 - 07 April 2011 04:03 PM

To me as long as your happy and he’s not taking advantage on you, go ahead and have some fun!

Totally agree with this.

depends on you and the guy
but i wouldnt go out with a older
after they treated my friend

I think people have different personalities, looks, identities, and that is what will make them stand out among others that you have seen. After you met and learned to like the person, age will definitely be an issue anymore

I have a friend who is 17 and her boyfriend is 21. It’s not an issue to her, but it affects myself and her other friends, to the point where we’re not sure whch is the real her…

What do you mean?

She’s changed heaps. Acts like she’s too good for us, dyed her hair really dark (and she’s quite pale, so it kinda has a vampire effect. She would have never of done that before she met her bf ). She’s trying to be really mature to fit in with her bf’s friends. And the rest of her friends are just being cast aside…it’s sad really.

Maybe she loves the guy so much to do such things to herself—trying to fit in order to make those people around his bf love her too. As friends, you have to talk her and assure her that you will be there to help her no matter what. Ask her as well what is going on with her life and ask her to hangout with you.

Its a tricky situation! In some ways, age doesn’t matter - you can still love each other just as much, and still have a great relationship.

But there are some things that might become problems.

He’s quite a lot older than you. In terms of maturity, either you’ll end up trying to act too old for your age, or he might be quite immature for his age. Acting mature doesn’t seem like an issue - but you should really enjoy your teenage years.

Does your family have an issue with the age difference? I would definitely suggest talking to them before you make any decisions. I know it doesn’t seem fair for them to choose who you date, but they will have good opinions about it, and if they are really against it, you don’t want to tear your family apart. I had issues with this when I was your age, and I ended up fighting with my family AND my boyfriend over it.

There’s a lot you’ve missed in his life. His 18th, his 21st, he’s already of legal age to drink and smoke and go gambling. You might want to look at which of the above hes involved in - and whether or not he’ll want you to join in too.

Above all, I suggest asking a bestie who you can trust to give an honest opinion.

Age doesn’t matter, but when it starts to effect your relationship it does. Just as long as you trust him it shouldn’t matter.