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Posted: 04 August 2010 04:32 PM   Ignore ]  
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I’m pregnant and apart form all the changes my body is doing im noticing lots of changes with my friends.

My partner and I are doing great, but I have had some pretty interesting reactions from my firends…

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Posted: 06 August 2010 09:41 AM   Ignore ]   [ # 1 ]  
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i dont think you being pregnant should change them.
one of my friends is pregnant and we didnt change just because she did.
maybe you should ask them whats going on.
then you can find out if they are true friends or not.

hope this helped! smile

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Posted: 06 August 2010 12:31 PM   Ignore ]   [ # 2 ]  
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Firstly, how old are you? If your quite young and still in your
teens - the pregancy mite come as a shock to them but thev
eventually get use to it orr they mite not which is very SAD :(.

Hope I’ve helped and good luck with your friends smile

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Posted: 19 August 2010 02:23 PM   Ignore ]   [ # 3 ]  
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Oh goodness. I had the exact same problem when I first told my friends I was pregnant (I’m now in my last 5weeks).

I guess the people who are happy for you, and are still the same, and are excited for you, those are your TRUE friends. Because no matter what, they will always be there for you.

On the other hand, the people who are kinda weirded out, or seem more distant.. Well they should get the boot. Simply because, if they’re not happy for you, then were they ever really happy for you at any other time?

I’ve lost a few friends over me being pregnant, but I moved on. Life is too short to dwell on silly things like that, especially since you learn who’s really going to be there for you when you need them.

 

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hey
wel i know someone that fell pregnant very young and all her friends that were “true” friends stayed by her where as some of her other friends just judged her and bullied her it was horrible watch people be cruel and the friends that stay by you through ur expierence are your true friends..

 

Posted: 28 August 2010 12:55 AM   Ignore ]   [ # 5 ]  
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if you being pregnant is changing the way they are that means they aint true friends and it sounds like u n ur partner are doing reali gud so dnt wori bout them because as long as u have the father the child loving u then thats all that matters.

 

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elley - 06 August 2010 12:31 PM

Firstly, how old are you? If your quite young and still in your
teens - the pregancy mite come as a shock to them but thev
eventually get use to it orr they mite not which is very SAD :(.

Hope I’ve helped and good luck with your friends :)

im 23 :D i think some of my friends are jealous because lots of my energy is going into getting things ready for the baby & even at almost 6months my morning sickness sux.
Lots of my friends always say they want kids & a great other half- ive got one & getting the other- i think it touches a nerve on some chicks

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