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QUIZ: Where do you fit in your group?

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What role do you play in your group of friends? Wall flower, leader, follower? Take our quiz to find out where you fit in.


When there is a little bit of “drama” in the group, what do you have to contribute?
1) You tell everyone your opinion, and exactly what you think, no feelings spared
2) You voice your opinion, but not necessarily what you really think
3) You don’t say anything

When you are all deciding what to do, who usually comes up with ideas or chooses where to go?
1) One of your other girlfriends, who always has gets her way
2) You decide as a group
3) You do, your friends are happy for you to decide

Do you find that you’re often a “doormat” when it comes to making decisions or voicing opinions?
1) No, not really, you are pretty good at sitting on the fence
2) No way, you wouldn’t let anyone make you feel that way
3) Yes, sometimes you feel “bullied” but not in a bad way

Do your friends listen to you when to have something to say?
1) Yes, you feel like your friends value your opinion, when you do speak up they listen
2) Yes, and no, they listen but because you talk a lot you feel like they sometimes “zone” out
3) Sometimes, but you are usually worried about what they might think

Do you get noticed by other people that are not in your “group” ?
1) Yes, you are loud enough for anyone to hear
2) No, you feel like you blur into the background
3) Yes, probably, but not for being outspoken

Do you find that you don’t always say how you feel to avoid confrontation?
1) Yes, most of the time!
2) It depends how strongly you feel about it
3) No way, you don’t want to be confrontational, but you’ll say what you think

Do you enjoy telling people what to do?
1) Yes, you know you have good ideas though!
2) Not at all, you prefer people make up their own minds
3) Sometimes, if you think you are right



 



Comon Discuss It..
In The Middle thats me. Yayah smile
Posted by court.s "on" 05/25 "at"12:58 PM
apparently i’m a bit of a wallflower. Maybe I should work on that, get my voice heard a bit more
Posted by mrslambert "on" 05/21 "at"06:50 PM
Yes I am the leader! I think being a good leader is all about listening and hearing people’s opinions. You have to let them know and feel that their opinions are valuable to you and that they are just as important as you even though your the one making most of the decisions. Make people feel important and also give them honest sincere compliments. Not just for the sake of making them like you or making them feel good!
Posted by Kooki "on" 04/12 "at"09:16 PM
perfect thats what i want them to think! wink
Posted by Xxc0rtxX "on" 08/12 "at"09:34 PM
You kinda sit on the fence in your group. You never say too much, but you put your two cents in when you feel it’s needed. You are happy to follow the leader and would rather sit back and relax than lead the way.
Posted by Xxc0rtxX "on" 08/12 "at"09:33 PM
hope im the leader haha
Posted by Xxc0rtxX "on" 08/12 "at"09:32 PM
I don’t know where I am in my group at the moment cause we are having a little bit of trouble but the quiz was right cause when we are together I am in the middle but when we divide I am the leader. I don’t know what to do. I feel stuck in the middle just like the quiz said. What should I do.  :(
Posted by Gracie99 "on" 07/11 "at"12:55 AM

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