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Help! My boyfriend’s a bad kisser

bad kisser

Q. My boyfriend isn’t a very good kisser. He uses way too much tongue and is really full on. I don’t enjoy kissing him but I really like him as a person! I don’t want it to be the reason we break up but I don’t know how to bring it up with him. Do you have any ideas?

A. It’s really difficult when there is just that one thing in an otherwise perfect relationship that can appear to be ruining everything. If you don’t enjoy kissing this guy, maintaining a relationship is going to be a bit of a problem.

‘Fess up
If you do really want to stay with him you are just going to have to ‘fess up. I know it can be hard to say something that might end up hurting him, but bringing it up is the hardest part. You need to gather the courage, and just be honest with him. Explain that you don’t want to break up, but that things aren’t gelling for you physically.

Honesty is best
In the end, honesty is always the best policy. Wouldn’t you rather your boyfriend be honest with you than one day dumping you out of the blue? If you’re honest about this then you can try to work things out, and if it doesn’t pan out then at least you know you both gave it your best shot and you can part ways knowing that some things just aren’t meant to be - rather than always wondering if you should’ve just asked him to lay off the tongue!

 

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Comon Discuss It..
Best thing is to talk to them - my partner didn’t used to be very good (we’ve been together three years - actually makes it harder to talk to him about such things if I’ve left it so long!) and he was sad I didn’t like the way he kissed, but once I’d talked to him, we’d practice and he learned pretty quickly!
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Posted by MissCarrion "on" 02/09 "at"12:38 AM
honesty is the best policy, so fess up! hehe, or teach him, and guide him and let him know you like too be kissed. my boyfriend was like that, then i started kissing him different or kissing him how he kisses me and he didnt realise, LOL. was quite a funny experience, i was like eeew you kiss me yuck & he was like oh how do you want me too kiss you soo i showed him, now hes alright (still slacks abit tho) hahahah but better than before! smile
Posted by MEZMRYZx "on" 02/03 "at"09:51 PM
Maybe you could tell him to stop kissing with the tongue so much and to maybe us the tongue less if it helps you
Posted by snookz12 "on" 01/02 "at"03:43 PM
my ex was a really awful kisser :/
Posted by Cellyfone1996 "on" 12/21 "at"09:05 AM
maybe you could just suggest for him to slow down
Posted by Balloons "on" 12/18 "at"05:26 PM
try new things. different kisses.
Posted by POWERBALLIN25 "on" 08/13 "at"11:52 PM
You should find a Movie that talks about kissing and what makes a good kiss then pretend to copy them.. and then just tell him wow that was really good you should do that more. =) and you didnt even mention how bad he was.
Posted by Xxc0rtxX "on" 08/12 "at"05:48 PM
I hate bad kissers eggh
Posted by Impy "on" 08/09 "at"09:16 PM

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