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Is It OK To Masturbate?

Is It OK To Masturbate?

Q. Does masturbating make you want to have sex? I am a virgin and don’t want to have sex until I know the person I am having it with for the first time really loves me. I know that lots of people masturbate, but I’m scared that if I start masturbating I will want to have sex.

A. While I don’t think it’s true that masturbating will turn you into some crazed sex fiend, it is likely to awaken that aspect of your physicality, especially if you aren’t already sexually active. When it comes down to it though, sex and masturbation are two very different things - masturbation is about your relationship with your body, while sex is about your relationship with another person. The feelings and sensations involved can be very different.

Girls masturbate for a wide variety of reasons. Some do it to explore their bodies, some do it to give themselves a quick feel-good, and some even do it so that they can sexually satisfy themselves and not need to have sex! Kudos to you for wanting to wait until you know the person you’re with truly loves you, but there’s nothing wrong with experimenting with your own body in the meantime.

At the end of the day, if you don’t want to keep doing it you don’t have to!

 

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Comon Discuss It..
p.s masturbation is the safest way LOL, you can’t get any STD’s & you can’t pass any on..unless you’ve physically touched somebody elses germy bits & recieved..ew but in this case its not, so again isay that masturbation is good!


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Posted by MEZMRYZx "on" 02/05 "at"01:59 AM
its a human thing to do it, not only that, atleast you can recognise how you like to be touched, so in future reference you can show/tell your bf how you like too be pleasured! haha, you’re perfectly norman hun!

smile

Posted by MEZMRYZx "on" 02/05 "at"01:57 AM
masturbating for me is satisfying wink
Posted by snookz12 "on" 01/02 "at"04:12 PM
what is masturbation????? xxxxxx
Posted by alissa "on" 11/20 "at"07:58 AM
i recommend you try it, i did before I became sexually active and woooah it made a huge differnce, it feels so good. i still do it reguallrly
Posted by swagger27 "on" 11/16 "at"03:11 PM
Thank God, that was a big help to me
Posted by Skinona "on" 09/26 "at"07:35 PM
completely healthy,i waited for that rite person too smile and i still have him <3 smile
Posted by courtneykellyx "on" 09/15 "at"12:54 AM
Its sooo normail and helps you understand yourself better =]
Posted by amberbeee "on" 09/06 "at"08:33 PM
Masturbation is about self exploration. If you don’t know what you like, how can you tell someone else what you like.
Posted by 59638 "on" 09/05 "at"11:40 PM
it’s healthy
Posted by POWERBALLIN25 "on" 08/14 "at"08:38 PM
xx
Posted by Xxc0rtxX "on" 08/12 "at"10:20 PM
masturbate before you become sexually active so it doesnt hurt as much- wish id had that advise. lol
Posted by Xxc0rtxX "on" 08/12 "at"10:20 PM
how do you masturbate?
Posted by Cynnyx "on" 04/13 "at"02:37 PM
xxx
Posted by 43948 "on" 03/27 "at"09:37 AM
I say masturbate before you become sexually active so it doesnt hurt as much when some one else does it! its like a warm up before the big game!
smilex
Posted by AshleeMayer "on" 03/24 "at"12:44 PM

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